{"id":102,"date":"2020-12-07T03:47:47","date_gmt":"2020-12-07T03:47:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rai.liz.mybluehost.me\/?page_id=102"},"modified":"2020-12-07T04:43:23","modified_gmt":"2020-12-07T04:43:23","slug":"so-who-wants-to-be-a-leader-anyway-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/victorgray.com\/?page_id=102","title":{"rendered":"So, Who Wants To Be A Leader Anyway"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, Who Wants to Be a Leader Anyway? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By Victor Gray, Speaker, Trainer, and Coach of Lead Change With No Fear \u00ae LLC<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">USA Today Claims, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The love is gone.\u201d Middle-management\u00a0jobs are&#8230;being seen as\u00a0handcuffs that require long hours with\u00a0 [little] reward. A onetime career goal\u00a0 now being shunned in large part by\u00a0 the newer generation of workers now\u00a0 entering the workplace. Who could\u00a0 blame a young person? Leaders in\u00a0 business, non-profit organizations,\u00a0 ministry and government almost daily\u00a0 appear in the media as being stupid,\u00a0 shortsighted, unethical and maybe even\u00a0 crooks!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, there are ten reasons why you&nbsp; should seek a leadership role:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1. Influence actions that you care&nbsp; about. <\/strong>Leadership is the process of&nbsp; influencing the activities of an individual&nbsp; or a group leading toward goal&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">achievement.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>2. Now is a great time to put into&nbsp; practice the skills of personal integrity. <\/strong>\u2022 To visualize the role of the leader,&nbsp; picture a three-legged stool. The&nbsp; first leg of the stool is people skills,&nbsp; which includes a variety of good&nbsp; communication skills, including&nbsp; listening.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022 The second leg of the stool is&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">competence. In other words, a good&nbsp; leader must know and employ the skills&nbsp; to get the job done.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u2022 The final leg of the stool is may be&nbsp; the hardest\u2014integrity. Although many&nbsp; leaders may perform well over the short&nbsp; term by way of their charisma (people&nbsp; skills) and competence; however, a lack&nbsp; of integrity will bring down skillful&nbsp; leaders and perhaps their organization as&nbsp; well. Integrity means being consistent or&nbsp; being the same all the time. Leaders with&nbsp; integrity act in the same manner when&nbsp; people are observing and when they are&nbsp; not observing. Unfortunately, it\u2019s easy&nbsp; to find examples in the media of leaders&nbsp; who were exposed for acting different&nbsp; in private than in public. A good&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">leader must sacrifice some of the rights&nbsp; followers have to rise to a leadership&nbsp; role. The Society of Human Resource&nbsp; Management conducted a survey&nbsp; of 415 international corporate chief&nbsp; executive officers (CEO\u2019s) concerning the&nbsp; characteristics employees want from their&nbsp; leaders. Eighty-five percent of the CEO\u2019s&nbsp; said performance and accomplishment&nbsp; of work (skills) were most important.&nbsp; However, eighty-two percent of the&nbsp; CEO\u2019s said character and integrity were&nbsp; the second most important traits for&nbsp; effective leadership. Skills and personality&nbsp; may get you the job, but a lack of&nbsp; integrity will eventually cause a leader to&nbsp; lose respect, or perhaps their job. A wise&nbsp; leader realizes that \u201cwhat goes around&nbsp; comes around.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>3. Expand your own skills and talents.&nbsp; <\/strong>As a follower transitions to the leadership&nbsp; role, the ability to delegate remains&nbsp; an underdeveloped skill. Resisting the&nbsp; temptation to do it yourself, rather than&nbsp; \u201cletting go\u201d and allowing team members&nbsp; perform, while using good follow-up&nbsp; skills, is a frequent pitfall for new leaders.&nbsp; Former President Dwight Eisenhower&nbsp; defined this aspect of leadership as, \u201cThe&nbsp; ability to get people to do things that&nbsp; you want done because they want to do&nbsp; them.\u201d Proverbs says, \u201cThe mark of a&nbsp; good leader is loyal followers; leadership&nbsp; is nothing without a following.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>4. You can begin to develop leadership&nbsp; vision. <\/strong>Vision is how the leader thinks&nbsp; and perceives reality, which ultimately&nbsp; affects the leader\u2019s actions. The leader&nbsp; must begin to think differently than her&nbsp; or his followers, see things followers do&nbsp; not, see beyond where followers see, and&nbsp; see things bigger than followers see.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>5. Teach new skills to others. <\/strong>There are&nbsp; few things in life more satisfying than&nbsp; watching someone use a skill that you&nbsp; have helped them to master.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>6. Make new\u00a0friends. <\/strong>Not\u00a0only will\u00a0you form\u00a0friendships\u00a0with others, but you\u00a0will also form\u00a0new friendships\u00a0with other\u00a0leaders.\u00a0Building friendships can\u00a0\u00a0easily occur when you participate in the\u00a0 excellent training available at FBLA\u2019s\u00a0 and PBL\u2019s state and national leadership\u00a0 conferences.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>7. You help FBLA-PBL, your school&nbsp; and community. <\/strong>You provide service&nbsp; through your organization\u2019s service&nbsp; projects and by helping members&nbsp; become better business professionals.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>8. You will gain personal insights.&nbsp; <\/strong>Leadership is a continuous test. You get&nbsp; a report card on your weakness and your&nbsp; strengths.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>9. You get more back than you put in. <\/strong>Serving as a leader may be one of the&nbsp; toughest jobs you may have, but the&nbsp; personal satisfaction and occasionally the&nbsp; gratitude from others is immeasurably.&nbsp; \u201cIt is better to give than to receive.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>10. Your contribution is greatly&nbsp; needed.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Victor Gray is a results-oriented speaker,&nbsp; trainer and coach with over twenty years of&nbsp; experience. Victor has planned, developed&nbsp; and presented over a thousand speeches&nbsp; and workshops for 30,000 participants&nbsp; nationwide. He offers customized and cost effective speeches and workshops that tackle&nbsp; the tough issues leaders and workplace&nbsp; professionals face. <\/em>\u25a0&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, Who Wants to Be a Leader Anyway? 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